Happy Thursday!
I wanted to share something that the Lord has been tugging at my heart about.
“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29 NIV
I remember taking my son, Micah, to a place that he wanted to go. It was hot, I was cranky, and I began to feel frustrated. Feeling quite the martyr, I was just about to remind Micah how lucky he was to have a mother like me to bring him to a place like this. But before the words escaped from my mouth...I heard a father belittling his son and jumping all over him. I watched as the joy left that little boy. Just then the Holy Spirit gently stopped me. Was that what I really wanted to say? Would those words make Micah feel “lucky” or would they make him feel guilty?
Instead of uttering my initial thought, I wrapped my arms around my precious young son and said, “Micah, I am so lucky to have a son like you that I can bring to a place like this!”
With those words, a broad spread across his precious face, and I was thankful then for the time that we had together.
Now, who was encouraged? Actually, we both were.
Perhaps you have some old tapes from your past that you tend to replay with your own children or your spouse. Did your mother make comments that caused you to feel guilty or as if you were indebted to her for the care she gave you? Perhaps she still does. Many moms could be travel agents for guilt trips. Is that how you want to be remembered?
I had success with my words that day, but not every day has been a banner day. I have used my words to tear down instead of build up. I have failed many times both with my children and my husband. I find myself thinking about this day over and over as I know that when things get stressful I'm less cautious about my words. Think about it, think about how you can use what you say to build up those around you.
Okay, that's my little lesson today :O)
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